Every escort remembers their first time with a nervous, first-time client—the hesitant knock at the door, the awkward smile, the visible nerves. For many men, booking a companion is a huge deal. It’s an entirely new experience, after all, and with that comes both excitement and anxiety.
Some clients are completely clueless. Others are too nervous to even take off their shoes. Some have never been with a woman outside of a relationship before, while others are just worried they’ll “mess it up.” As one of our London escorts, it’s your job to make them feel comfortable, at ease, and ensure they leave thinking, ‘Why didn’t I do this sooner?’
So, how do you support first-time clients and turn a nerve-wracking experience into a very, very positive one? Read the helpful advice from experienced companions below to find out…
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Before you can ease their nerves, you need to understand what’s making them nervous in the first place.
Once you recognise where their anxieties come from, you can start breaking down those barriers.
Here’s what Mari-Ann, an experienced London companion picture above, had to say about new clients:
“I actually enjoy seeing first-time clients. It’s a chance to show them that this isn’t some seedy, emotionless thing. It’s fun, exciting, and can be incredibly intimate if they just relax and let go. But before that can happen, it’s your job to identify what it is that’s making them nervous.”
Visit Mari-Ann’s profile to learn more about her.
The first five minutes set the tone for the entire booking.
From the moment he steps into your space, you want him to feel welcome, comfortable, and safe. That means:
Russian model Polly is an expert in GFE services (amongst many other experiences, which you can learn more about on her profile), so making new clients feel at ease is what she does best. She reveals that:
“Most first-timers are scared of getting straight to the action. I always start by chatting a bit—asking about their day, telling them about mine. It’s just two people getting to know each other, and that alone makes them feel a hundred times better.”
Many first-time clients have no idea what to expect. They don’t know the “rules” or how things work. Some are scared to even make the first move.
This is where you take control.
Seasoned escort Kris reveals that the best way to reassure him is with these small, gentle steps:
“A lot of guys panic about what to do next, so I guide them gently. I’ll take their hand and put it on my waist, or I’ll start kissing them softly until they stop overthinking and just feel the moment.” — Kris
Once the nerves start melting away, physical touch helps break down the final walls of tension. Don’t jump straight to the main event—build anticipation.
“The minute I start kissing a guy and touching his body, he stops overthinking. It doesn’t take long before all the nerves disappear. By then, it’s like I’m with a entirely different person!” — Lilu, one of our experienced mature models.
The biggest fear first-time clients have? Not being able to perform. Some finish too quickly, others can’t get hard at all, and many feel embarrassed about it.
But here’s the thing—this is completely normal. And the way you react can make or break the experience.
If he struggles to stay hard, don’t make it awkward. Instead:
Even our gorgeous model Divine (who certainly lives up to her name, as you can see above) has had her fair share of clients with performance issues. She shares that:
“A guy once apologised over and over for not getting hard. I just laughed and told him, ‘Sweetheart, you’re literally in bed with a gorgeous naked woman. It’s fine. Let’s just enjoy it.’ And that was it—he relaxed, and suddenly everything was working just fine.”
You can learn more about this fashion model on Divine’s profile.
The goal is to get him out of his head and into his body. Some men are so caught up in nerves, expectations, and anxiety that they forget to actually enjoy what’s happening.
Remind him that this is about pleasure, not pressure.
First-time clients will always remember their first escort experience. Make sure it’s a good one.
Serena (pictured above) always makes an effort to follow these steps above. As a result, she’s established herself as one of our top 5 busty escorts.
“A lot of my regulars started out as nervous first-timers. But because I made them feel safe, confident, and sexy, they kept coming back for more.” — Serena
First-time clients are unique. They come in nervous, unsure, and sometimes downright terrified—but if you handle them with care, they leave grateful, relaxed, and eager for more.
By setting the right tone, making them feel at ease, guiding them through the experience, and helping them let go of their nerves, you can turn a nervous first-timer into a lifelong client.
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