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How To Impress An Escort On Your First Date

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London’s escort industry is a significant part of the UK’s sex work sector, with an estimated 10,000 to 13,000 individuals involved nationwide, many operating in the capital.

While model escorts are professionals providing companionship, genuinely impressing them goes beyond a simple payment. It requires respect, authenticity, and effort.

As one escort shared:

“My best bookings have always been with clients that appear to enjoy their time with me, not just thanks to the quality of the service I provide or how I look but also largely in part because they genuinely like who I am as a person.”

Here’s a concise guide to making a positive impression on the first date. To impress an escort over multiple sessions, read our guide on being your escorts favourite client.


Dress With Your Best Food Forward

Present yourself at your best to show respect for the occasion. Shower thoroughly, focusing on hygiene in key areas, use deodorant, trim nails and facial hair, and dress appropriately. This alone will immediately turn your escort on to you.

Wear smart casual for a relaxed date, avoiding overly formal suits unless specified.

Escorts appreciate the effort:

“I really enjoy dressing up for a booking and I really appreciate it when my client has clearly made an effort to look nice as well. When I see a nice outfit and a subtle eau de toilette welcomes me, then I’m completely happy.”

This sets a positive tone and demonstrates mutual respect.


Be Your Authentic Self

Avoid putting on an act. Escorts are skilled at spotting insincerity, they will see you a mile off. Instead, relax and be yourself.

Favorite clients are those who:

“communicate well, and come back: the longer I’m seeing someone, the more fun we have.”

Authenticity fosters trust and enjoyment for both parties.


Show Genuine Interest

Move beyond superficial compliments by listening actively and engaging in meaningful conversation.

Our celebrity escorts working with us in London really appreciate a listening ear, it puts you on a fast track to being her #1.

Ask about her hobbies, favorite books, movies, or cuisine without prying into personal details.

Escorts value clients who are:

“attentive because they’re paying for my time, so they make the most of it.”


Offer Sincere Compliments

Compliment specifically and honestly. Focus on her eyes, smile, style, or personality rather than generic praise. Overdoing it can seem disingenuous.

As one escort noted on social media, clients:

“make me feel beautiful, which enhances the experience when genuine.”

A small gesture like flowers can also convey thoughtfulness:

“To me, getting flowers is a timeless, romantic gesture that I really appreciate.”


Don’t Get Personal

Avoid pushing for real names, personal contacts, or intimate details. Many models use pseudonyms for safety.

Respect all boundaries. Honour any requests to stop or change topic immediately.

Favorite clients:

“respect my personal and professional boundaries, and pay me well.”

This is crucial in a profession where safety concerns are prevalent.

This approach helps build rapport, especially in an industry where 39% of sex workers report experiencing violence from clients, underscoring the importance of respectful interactions.


Choose a Casual, Private Setting

Choose a quiet, informal venue with good food for easy conversation, avoiding extravagant displays that may not impress.

Read our escorts favourite spots in Canary Wharf about examples of venues that models like. If you do not drink alcohol, consider our non alcoholic spots in London as a compromise.

Arrive on time, pay upfront discreetly, and let her set the pace. Escorts appreciate clients who are thoughtful and emotionally supportive, turning the date into a relaxed, enjoyable experience.

By following these tips, you’ll not only impress but also contribute to a positive, respectful dynamic which makes these ladies love their work.

Remember their feelings; they are very human. They hurt, cry and laugh just like you. This simple respect will show and go a long way.

Lastly, pick the right companion. We have a huge gallery of luxurious London escorts, it is matchmaking heaven. There are plenty of diverse ladies with different personalities to suit any type of person.

 

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