Bondage is a common fetish request and clients sometimes feel intimidated approaching the subject. If that is the case for you, this guide is all about booking a BDSM or tie and tease escort and will give you everything you need to know.
BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. For beginners, it’s usually light, playful restraint (like silk ties or cuffs) combined with teasing touches.
An escort is a great way to get started with this fetish, you can explore it safely together, and find a model that matches your preferences (less experience, more experience).
Key terms to understand before proceeding:
Decide your role: Want to be in control? Book a submissive escort. Craving surrender? Choose a dominatrix or switch.
We recommend beginning on the gentle end of the spectrum, pros love guiding newbies.
If you are booking a companion outside of Top Models remember to used a trusted provider with a clear service list, recent reviews and who screen their clients. Avoid red flags: no website, unclear prices, or pressure to book instantly.
1. Send a friendly message:
“Hi Top Models, I’m new and interested in a 1-hour tie-and-tease session on Friday evening. Are you available? Happy to screen.”
2. Be honest about experience and limits.
3. Provide the requested info (ID, references, or small deposit).
4. Confirm details 24 hours before: location, outfit requests, toys.
It is more important than ever to be ready for your booking if it is fetish related, remember to:
If you want to be extra attentive, read our guide on how to befriend your escort. It details how to be ready, and make yourself her favourite client.
You’ll start with a relaxed chat to confirm the boundaries and safe words (10–15 minutes). Go over what activities you would like to enjoy during the session. Sessions can focus on sensation, power play, whilst also including a full escort service.
Then the fun can begin. Once over, feel free to enjoy the aftercare: hugs, a joint shower, and conversation if desired.
Take a moment to think over what you loved, and what to try differently. Feel free to leave an online review, good or bad it helps everyone.
Many beginners book the same provider again to explore more.
If the service was good you should consider setting up a future arrangement, as good bondage services can be hard to find.
We have a large range of escorts in our Fetish portfolios that enjoy all manner of BDSM activities, from light to heavy. Take a look and see if any of the ladies take your fancy.
If you are looking for specific matchmaking for a particular niche service please send us your inquiry.
For serious clients who demand high end BDSM services we suggest becoming a member of Top Models, our team will then be able to devote time to match you with a companion that fits your taste.
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